Pet Loss Psychotherapy
Dr. Nancy Curotto, licensed psychologist, can help you recover from pet loss.
I have questions.....
Why does it hurt so much?
Why can't my friends and family understand my grief?
Why can't my friends and family understand my grief?
Mourning a pet can be similar to mourning the loss of a close friend or immediate family member. The sadness and pain are real. The loss changes all aspects of your life. It's a loss of a companion and of unconditional love. Initially, it may be painful to recall your pet's playful habits and unique personality characteristics. Be kind to yourself, dealing with pet loss is difficult, get support with a counselor or licensed psychologist.
Why can't my friends and family understand my grief?
Why can't my friends and family understand my grief?
Why can't my friends and family understand my grief?
The loss of a pet is hard enough to endure without positive support from your community, friends, and family. While your community and peers may love you dearly, if they have not ever formed a relationship with a pet or believe in the value of pets; these individuals may be unable to understand your grief. Getting support during this difficult time is important. Consider joining an in-person or online support group, call a hotline or seek out therapy.
Why am I overwhelmed by thoughts of losing my pet?
Why can't my friends and family understand my grief?
Who gets custody of my pet if I divorce, break up, or my roommate and I move on?
Anticipatory loss occurs when we image our life without our beloved pet or face the fact that we may lose them. Anticipatory loss can be harder to bear than the grief we experience after their death. It is natural to feel some anxiety and fear about what caring for your ill pet may cost you in time, effort and money; it's important to get support, and remain present. Anticipation of loss of an ill pet taxes the body and mind, and keeps us in constant alert for an unpredictable amount of time.
Who gets custody of my pet if I divorce, break up, or my roommate and I move on?
Who gets custody of my pet if I divorce, break up, or my roommate and I move on?
Who gets custody of my pet if I divorce, break up, or my roommate and I move on?
If you lose custody of your pet or are required to share custody due to a divorce, break up or roommate agreement; the loss of control is intense and can cause overwhelming stress. When you do not have daily access to your pet's life you can feel anxious and sad. Get support and talk to someone who can help you cope with your pet's departure and survive the separation and new custody arrangement.
How long will my grief last?
Who gets custody of my pet if I divorce, break up, or my roommate and I move on?
When will I be ready to love another pet?
Grief has no time limit. For some, it lasts days, and for others it last weeks or months. Do not feel pressure to speed up your grieving process or recovery. Understanding that the process of grief is a unique, personal experience helps. Find support and ask for help.
When will I be ready to love another pet?
Who gets custody of my pet if I divorce, break up, or my roommate and I move on?
When will I be ready to love another pet?
The first step in knowing whether you are ready for a new pet is recognizing where you are in your grief process. While some individuals grieve quickly and are emotionally ready for a new pet, others need more time to accept the loss. Rushing the process is risky to you and your relationship with a new pet because a new pet comes with a different personality and needs than the one you lost. When you are ready, embrace the new journey that a different pet will bring to your life.